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Makes sense, of course your obsession with the size of your dicks is understandable. You’re bombarded with (and all too often, fall for) advertising for penis-enlarging pills or equipment just because you have been conditioned into believing women prefer larger penises.
You can’t help but to measure yourself in comparison with the penises of others and since the easiest guys to compare yourself with are porn stars (who usually have very large cocks), the average guy thinks he’s too small to satisfy a woman.
Thus a man with a seven-inch penis may proudly compare his organ to the average man’s five to six inches but be intimidated when learning another wields an eight-inch rod. The man with the eight-inch penis is then demoralized when he finds that another man is walking around with a nine-inch tool. The man strutting around with a nine-inch “monster cock” feels puny compared to Jonah Falcon’s thirteen and a half inches.
The sad thing is many men with monster cocks assume that their enormous size is sufficient to pleasure their partner, [instead of taking the time and effort their women really need.](https://letsreadsex101.blogspot.com/2025/05/taste.html#9) This leads to miserable (and sore) women and the lack of a lasting, loving relationship.
So, yes your penis size is very important if you are comparing your size to another guy just like the way guys will compare the size and type of cars they drive. however when it comes to sex you are 100% wrong about penis size
For the love of God, don't tell him or allude to it! No, no, no, there's no reason to bring that up.
We're gonna work this out, but you have to promise not to criticize your man's meager member. I mean ever. If you think the thing works poorly now, imagine what it would do if the words "difficult to feel you" were to ever tumble carelessly from your mouth.
I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that if you're comfortable talking penis sizes with thousands of readers, you're no staunch traditionalist, so... Have you considered trying toys? Tell your fella you're fantasizing about spicing things up, and ask him to join you in purchasing some pleasure-prompting playthings. Choose a mix of girthy gadgets for yourself and glovey gizmos for him, too (hey, you have to assume it's difficult for him to feel you, too). Add in some feathered, flavored, or fur-lined fun to throw him off the "you have a small penis" scent.
Fullness you can buy. But a man that you love, who is manually dexterous and makes a regular point of pleasuring you? That's no small thing.
I know you are trying to understand your vagina, but this is exactly what happens to the penis too. At rest it is so small but when aroused it increases in size. If you have ever seen a penis erecting then that is exactly what is happening with your vagina ( it's erecting going inside so it's not visible)
Think of a vagina as an inverted hollow penis or rather a penis mold.
Here is a fun thought experiment to visualize it. if I was a god and wanted to cast a penis for your vagina this is what i will do. I will make you be in a comfortable position and open your vagina. I will then pour human flesh casting material. Since you are not aroused and the vagina is too small and short I would have cast a small flaccid penis.
Next, I will get you aroused with lots of foreplay and repeat the process. This time from your vagina I am able to cast a very long and thick penis. During all this process anytime your vagina is not able to handle a long thick penis I will just take a break and use other stimulation methods to get your vagina to expand again.
Stop thinking about it. If you start concentrating on when and how to climax to coordinate with your partner . Your deliberate efforts will have negative impact that will turn to getting an orgasm into a damn squid
I know I am always talking about [how to achieve an orgasm.](https://www.pinslut.com/views.php?id=54626) Of course, orgasms feel amazing, but the act of chasing them can add a lot of pressure to your sex life that you don't need.
What I suggest is this simple penetration technique that can yield tremendous staying power for you, and yet put her on a continuous sexual high at the same time.
This is what you do…
Perform eight shallow thrusts about two to three inches deep, and then one deep thrust. Follow this up with seven shallow thrusts and then two deep ones; six shallow thrusts followed by three deep ones.
You get the idea.
Continue doing this until you are performing nine deep thrusting movements. Then repeat the entire sequence again.
Why does this work so well?
First, deep thrusts are the ones that bring your penis closest to orgasm, as the frenulum (the stringy thing in the "inverted v" under the glans) and shaft skin are stretched the most, causing greater arousal. Varying shallow and deep thrusts will help taper off the stimulation on the penis glans/head. Second, the first three inches of a woman's vagina contain the most pleasure-seeking nerves and the shallow thrusts will stimulate her really well.
Take a playful approach to it. Don't put too much pressure on them to get it right straight away, give them plenty of feedback and guidance, keep the mood light, etc. The are probably not going to be upset about spending a day in bed exploring your body and learning how to really get you there if they really love you and care about whether or not you are enjoying yourself.
On the flip side, you need to show just as much willingness and interest in what they would like you to do for them in bed. Like I said, take a day to do some playful exploration of each other's bodies and communicate to each other what is working and what needs to be worked on, and don't take any slight criticisms or corrections to heart. Figuring each other's bodies out can be a fun and playful experience, depending on how a couple goes about it. If you don't say or do something to make them aware of the fact that they are not a great lay, then what incentive do they have to work on it?
If you tell them it was good, then that's what they are going to believe, so you can't be too upset about them strutting around being pleased with themself when you were the one that told them that, even though they didn't.
Another option is to have it rigged. [Choose the sexual instruction book about the specific area you want them to improve,](https://www.elitesubmit.com/out.php?id=4618) then suggest to read it together. Your job is to then emphasize how understated something is whenever that something is mentioned. This will enable you to be very critical and straight to the point without actually doing so because the manual is doing it for you
Whatever you do, do not be directly overly critical of their performance in bed. Could be a sore spot for most people and can end up damaging the performance more than help it progress.
Missionary with your hands wrapped around the base of his cock allows you to be in control of when you have had enough, spooning also feels great and allows him to get deep a lot easier. Another position that a lot of size queens love is you on top, leaning forward slightly, it gives you more control and allows you to take length a lot easier. Laying flat on your front also feels good, I like to avoid doggy-style and putting my legs around his shoulders in missionary and this can cause discomfort with a bigger dick.
Also using lube is a MUST. You will face the wrath of your ancestors if you skip it because you think you will be fine without it and that just isn’t true. I always use lube, no matter what, it makes things slippery, wet, more comfortable and it just [makes sex and foreplay a lot nicer.](https://www.elitesubmit.com/out.php?id=4606)
Lastly, [if you start masturbating with dildos](https://www.elitesubmit.com/out.php?id=4630) (if you don’t already), doing it on a more frequent basis will make having a quickie with a bigger guy easier, it also makes bigger sex better. You are just getting the muscles used to daily insertion and relaxing the Kegels to accommodate the girth daily.
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